gogostvis pirveli sex
gogonasTvis pirveli seqsi - es ara mxolod pirveli sqesobrivi ShTabechdilebaa, aramed qaluri mgrdZnobelobis Chasaxvac. Tu mamkaci mis mimarT ar gamoavlens sinazes, taqtsa da gagebas, qals sqesobrivi aqtis mimarT SeidZleba mTeli cxovrebis mandZilze sicive da zizgi ganuviTardes. rac ar unda nazi da alersiani mamakaci Shexvdes mas Shemdgom, igi bevrs vegarafers gamoasworebs. frigiduli qalbatonebis daaxloebiT naxevari, Tavisi “sicivis” mizezad asaxelebs partnioris uxeShobas pirveli kontaqtis dros. qaliShvili defloracias fciqologiurad mwvaved ganicdis panikuri ShiShidan dawyebuli (mag. masze dZaladobisas) sasixarulo-madlieri grdZnobiT damTavrebuli, sayvarel adamianTan urTierTobis gamo. pirveli seqsualuri gamocdileba qalis seqsualurobis safuZvelia ar unda mousminoT ras yvebian garSemomyofni pirveli urTierTobis Sesaxeb. es yvelasTan sxvadasxvagvarad xdeba. qalebis umravlesobas defloracia umtkivneulod gadaaqvs. tkivilis SegrZneba Tqvens Sinagan ganwyobazea damokidebuli. SiSisa da moulodnelobis dros, fsiqikuri diskomfortisas adgili aqvs kunTebis spazms da warmoiqmneba tkivilis SegrZneba. Tu am movlenis mimarT moralurad ganwyobili xarT da gindaT es am mamakacTan ganicadoT, tkivili ar unda iyos. zogjer defloracia garTulebulia mosalodneli tkivilisadmi qalis SiSis gamo, rasac Tan sdevs saSvilosnos kunTebis uneblie kumSva, rac winaaRmdegobas uwevs asos. Tu qali ganimuxteba yvelaferi kargad Caivlis. mamakaci am dros unda moqmedebdes nazad, magram Tavdajerebulad. SeecadeT ifiqriT ara SiSze da fiziologiur SegrZnebebze, aramed partniorisadmi grZnobebze. bevria damokidebuli garemozec. is unda iyos Cveuli da damamSvidebeli. zogjer pirveli sqesobrivi kavSiri qalisTvis arasasurvelia. saqalwule apkis dazianebisas igi tkivils grZnobs, romelic mas yvela sxva SegrZnebas uTrgunavs. meore da mesame urTierTobisas SesaZloa gaCndes sasiamovno SegrZnebebi (im pirobiT, rom qalis fsiqika ar iqna tramvirebuli mamakacis utaqtobiT) pirvelive kontaqtis dros qalma SeiZleba miiRos kmayofileba, ZiriTadad alersiT. ar aris aucilebeli defloracia pirvelive jerze moxdes Zlieri tkivilis dros is SeiZleba daiyos “etapebad” elastiuri apkis SemTxvevaSi, yoveli mcdeloba dakavSirebulia xvrelis gafarToebasTan da qals aqvs mtkivneuli SegrZnebebi. dauSvebelia partnioris uxeSoba, iZuleba, radgan SesaZloa ganviTardes Semdgomi garTulebebi, zizRi koitusisadmi, vaginizmi. defloracia unda ganxorcieldes dawolil mdgomareobaSi. tkivilis Semcireba SesaZlebelia, Tu koitusi garkveul pozebSi Sesruldeba: sawolSi qali zurgze wveba, fexebs iatakze uSvebs, mamakaci ki mis fexebs Soris dgeba da misi tanis mimarT xelebze dayrdnobili introituss nela asrulebs. kidev ufro umtkivneulod iTvleba poza, roca zurgze dawolili qali baliSs an dagorglil gadasafarebels idebs barZayebs qvemodan, fexebs muxlebSi xris da miaqvs Tavisi gul-mkerdisken, es uzrunvelyofs saqalwule apkis maqsimalur daWimvas da iol dazianebas. ar dagaviwydeT Tqveni vaginaluri kunTebiT muShaoba. gaxsovdeT, rom partniorebi unda zrunavdenen imaze, raTa siamovneba mianiWon erTmaneTs aseTia kargi seqsis postulati. es saukuneebis ukan, viqtorianuli epoqis burJuaziuli sazogadoeba Tvlida, rom qals ar SeuZlia seqsiT kmayofilebis miReba. “ daxuWe Tvalebi da ifiqre inglisze!” aseTi iyo klasikuri rCeva, romelsac deda aZlevda qaliSvils qorwinebamde. wesdeba kargad aRzrdili qalbatonebi ar moZraoben sTavazobda “maRali wris qalbatonebs” danebebodnen mamkacs pasiurad, moZraobis, emociebis gareSe (sawolSi, rogorc maRali donis miRebaze). XVIII saukuneSi, aRsarebis mimRebi mRvdlebisTvis, dawerili iyo: “Tu mamakacs TesldanTxeva daemarTa iqamde, vidre colma siamovnebis miReba SesZlo, qals SeuZlia TviTagznebiT daikmayofilos Tavi, mas aseve codvad ar eTvleba Tu is kontaqtamde mimarTavs TviTagznebas genitaliebTan SexebiT, raTa miiRos siamovneba sqesobrivi siaxlovisas. pirveli koitusis dros qalebs ar ageniShnebaT lubrikacia da amitom rekomendebulia asos Tavze vazelinis wasma, xolo Tu aqti prezervativiT xorcieldeba wyalze damzadebuli geliT solkoseriliT. defloracias, rogorc wesi Tan sdevs mciredi sisxldena, Tumca ShemTxvevaTa 10% -Si es ar xdeba. gavrcelebuli azris Tanaxmad, wamosuli sisxli, qalwulobis damamtkicebelia. am dros mkacrad unda iqnas daculi sasqeso organoebis higiena. saqalwule apkis darRvevis Semdeg, Sexorcebamde, rekomendebulia koitusis Sewyveta. normiT 3-5 dRis Semdeg saqalwule apkis kedlebi xorcdeba da Shemdgomi urTierTobebi umtkivneulod mimdinareobs. “idealuri defloratoris portreti”. es aris mamkaci, daaxloebiT 30 wlis, is sakmaod gamocdili da gawafulia seqsis sakiTxSi. cxovrebaSi is damoukidebelia, miekuTvneba “mamakaci-mamis” fsiqologiur tips; igi kargadaa aRzrdili, maRali inteleqtualuri SesaZleblobebi gaaCnia, moridebuli da mzrunvelia qalTan urTierTobaSi. is seqsualuri altruistia: misi pirveladi amocanaa jer qals mianiWos siamovneba, da Semdeg ganicados TviTon. igi kargi aRnagobisaa, did dros uTmobs sawolSi alerss, is mSvidia, TavdaWerili da naklebadmolaparake. SeuZlia konfliqtebis mogvareba, erTgulia, aqvs iumoris grZnoba. amasTan “defloraciis ostati” cdilobs Tavisi gamoucdeli partniori orgazmamde miiyvanos TiTisa da enis gamoyenebiT, raTa qalma icodes ra simaRleebi elis da mxolod amis Semdeg iyenebs Tavis gamagrebul “agregats” da arTmevs “ubiwoebis Taiguls“, romelsac qali iolad da sixaruliT eleva (sisxlisa da tkivilis daviwyebiT), raTa kidev ara erTxel ganicados msgavsi siamovneba. sqesobrivi cxovrebis dasawyisSi, infeqciebisagan Tavdacvis mizniT, umjobesia prezervativiT sargebloba. im SemTxvevaSic ki, Tu Tqven darwmunebuli xarT mamakacSi. prezervativi warmoadgens Tavis dacvis sakmaod saimedo saSualebas da gicavT arasasurveli fexmZimobisagan. aucilebeli moTxovnaa prezervativis morgeba unda moxdes kontaqtis dawyebamde da moxsna aqtis damTavrebis Semdeg, saSvilosnos lorwovan garsTan uSualo Sexebis moridebiT. pirveli jerisaTvis kontracefciis adgilobrivi qimiuri saSualebebic gamodgeba farmateqsi da patenteqs ovali. es saSvilosnos saSualebebia, romlebic infeqciebTan da fexmZimobasTan mimarTebaSi prezervativis moqmedebis msgavsia. amavdroulad isini qmnian qafs, romelic Tavisi moqmedebiT sacxis Semcvlelia. SesaZlo tkivilis asarideblad misi Seyvana unda moxdes nela, magram ara gaWianurebiT, Tan kargi sacxis gamoyenebiT. pirvel Rames dafexmZimebis an dainficirebis albaToba iseve SesaZlebelia, rogorc sqesobrivi kavSiris danarCen SemTxvevebSi. Tqveni organizmi pirvelad xvdeba sxvis mikrobebs da SesaZloa ganviTardes saSvilosnos an saSarde buStis anTeba. gaufrTxileblobam SeiZleba arasasurvel Sedegamde migiyvanoT: fexmZimobamde an Tqvenma partniorma SesaZloa gadagdoT infeqciebi. aseTi ramis akideba, Tan pirvelive jerZe Zalian arasasiamovno ram aris. daucveli seqsis dros qali bevrad ufro iolad inficirdeba, vidre mamakaci, radgan qalis organizmi isea mowyobili, rom mikrobebi masSi ufro iolad aRwevs, vidre mamkacis asoSi. amas garda, sqesobrivi gziT gadamdebi daavadebebi qalbatonebSi usimptomod mimdinareobs, rac kidev ufro zrdis sxva SesaZlo daavadebebis da garTulebebis ganviTarebis risks. amitom ar daiviwyoT intimuri higienis Sesaxeb. sqesobrivi cxovrebis dawyebis Semdeg aucileblad unda mimarToT ginekologs infeqciebze gamosakvlevad, saSvilosnos yelis Sesamowmeblad an raime dazianebis droulad gamosavlenad. televizia, kino, bulvaruli romanebi gvinergaven, rom sasiyvarulo vneba mudmivad grZeldeba da Tu Tqven erTmaneTi ipoveT, mTel cxovrebas erTad gaatarebT. samwuxarod, es yovelTvis ase ar aris. vneba adre Tu gvian gadis, amitom seqsualuri urTieTobebi Sevsebul unda iqnas sxva grZnobebiT. es aris urTierTpativiscema, zrunva, sinaze, urTierTgageba yvela grZnoba rac Seadgens siyvaruls. Tu gogona momwifda da Tvlis, rom mzad aris seqsualuri urTierTobisaTvis, maSin man unda izrunos usafrTxoebaze. jer erTi araviTari alkoholi, TiTqos-da modunebisaTvis; meore saWiro adgilis SerCeva, ise rom sapasuxismgeblo momentSi aravin SegiSalos, mesame izruno Casaxvis sawinaaRmdego saSulebebze, e. i. prezervativze. es sakiTxebi partniorTan Riad unda ganixiloT, yovelgvari kiTxvebis datovebis gareSe. mozardebis 70%, romelic intimur cxovrebas eweva ar sargeblobs Casaxvis sawinaaRmdego saSualebebiT. maTgan xSirad moismenT: ”Cven amas arc ise xSirad vakeTebT”. zogierTi ki Tvlis, rom pirveli seqsualuri eqsperimentebi usafrTxoa. sinamdvileSi daaxloebiT 200 aTasi gogona fexmZimdeba pirvel oTx kviraSi da 500 aTasi seqsualuri cxovrebis dawyebidan naxevari wlis manZilze. mozardebis meore nawili ar sargeblobs Casaxvis sawinaaRmdego saSualebebiT, TiTqosda ar gaauferulos pirveli Sexvedris mimzidveloba. diax, Casaxvis sawinaaRmdego saSualebebi auferulebs garkveul SegrZnebebs, magram mTeli Semdgomi cxovrebis dangrevas amis atana namdvilad sjobs. defloracia ar aris mavne, Tu is ara uadres 17-18 wlis asakidan moxdeba. am dromde unda SemoifargloT masturbaciiTa da petingiT, (rac, sxvaTa Soris, erTmaneTis gacnobis kargi saSualebaa) es safuZvliania imitomac, rom gogonebis umetesobas am asakamde ar gamoumuSavdeba saSvilosnos damatenianebeli sacxi. sqesobrivi cxovrebis dawyeba Tqveni gacnobierebuli arCevania. fizikuri mzadyofnis garda, saWiroa dajerebuloba imisa, rom es namdvilad gWirdebaT. nu SexedavT sxvebs, mousmineT sakuTar Tavs. infeqciebi da arasasurveli fexmZimoba sqesobrivi cxovrebis naadrevi dawyebis Sedegebia.